Relationships are determined by a bunch of things, but first and foremost: compatibility. Being on the same page just makes your relationship easier. Our Vision Cards for Your Relationship help you understand what you want and offer great conversation prompts to help you get on the same page, whether you’re only dating or have been together for years. This digital edition allows you to print the cards at home, saving on shipping time & costs.
What topics are explored in these Relationship Cards?
The cards have 7 categories (with 7 questions) each: You in Relationships, Your Dream Partner, Communication, Quality Time, Sexuality, Practicalities, and Tough Times. Every category helps you get on the same page about your dream relationship and spot differences before they turn into problems.
Why are they called Vision Cards, what does that mean?
Your vision is the way you’d like things to be. We believe that knowing what you want will help you make choices that work for you. These cards are created specifically to help you get clear on what you want in relationships (your relationship vision) and discuss it with your date(s) or partner(s)
I’m gay / trans / queer, can I use these cards?
100%! We try to be as inclusive as possible and make no assumption about your gender or sexual preferences. Please let us know if you feel we could do something to improve this even further!
Can I use these cards on a first date?
The Vision Cards for Your Relationship will sometimes ask you to get vulnerable and go deep. If your date is up for it, it’s a great tool to really know each other. If you’re just looking for some simple conversation starters, other card games are probably a better fit.
I’m monogamous. Can I use the Vision Cards for Your Relationship?
Absolutely. Unlike the Polyamory Conversation Cards, these cards aren’t made with any specific relationship dynamics in mind. Whether you enjoy having an open relationship or prefer being exclusive – these cards are for you.
I’m not monogamous. Can I still use the Vision Cards for Your Relationship?
Yes, you can! Although we specifically developed Polyamory Conversation Cards (including a digital version) for polyamory and other open relationship dynamics, an open relationship is still a relationship. The polyamory cards focus more on topics specifically relevant for open relationships; the Vision Cards for Your Relationship focus on topics that are relevant in any relationship.
Can I use these relationship cards with my friends?
Sure! You can use them for a cozy night with friends to talk about your ideal relationships. You’ll find that some questions are even relevant for friendships!
Can I use the Vision Cards for Your Relationship if I don’t have a relationship at the moment?
Yes, in fact – it’s the best moment to use them! When you’re single, these cards will help you get clear on what you’re looking for in your relationships. Once you understand what makes you happy (and what doesn’t) you’ll have a much easier time finding the right partner(s) when the time is right.
Can I get these cards in print?
Yes! We have an English and a Dutch edition.
Are you offering these relationship cards in other languages?
The paper cards are also available in Dutch. The digital version is available in English and German, but we’re happy to look into translations if you’d like us to offer a different language. Just shoot us a message!
What other tools do you have to help me with my relationship?
We have a bunch of different tools and we’re always expanding. How about our Connection Compass or Boundary Breakthrough course? Check out the Relationship Hub for a full overview.
Who made the Vision Cards for Your Relationship?
All questions are developed by Marianna Zelichenko, the founder of Odder Being. Most card decks are illustrated by different artists. The Vision Cards for Your Relationship are illustrated by Jenny Kroese, a Dutch artist.
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